Build a positive Relationship with failures

Have you ever heard that anybody has learnt from his success?

Is this success or the failure which makes you learn?

Is failure has any positive aspect or not?

These are the questions that make us think that failure is also worthwhile like we perceive our successes. We just need to change the negative notions linked with the failures. Many people when get fail in anything, they just give up or feel so depressed that other people have no choice other than consoling them with such sentences, “oh that poor guy or lady, missed out that chance”. So like this they just become the focus of pity, sympathy or lots of criticism from other people, its just because they take their failures as some negative or undesirable thing, that should must be avoided in order to feel happy or comfortable.

We need to build our relationship with our failures as they can proved to be very best and influential teachers to us, only if we understand them, respect them and open ourselves to them for learning what they want us to learn. Every failure is like a teacher, which teaches us new lesson; it’s just how much keenness you have for learning new things new lessons in your life and how much a good learner you are.

We come up with so much heartache and disappointment when we get fail, rather if we get connected to our failures, respect them and appreciate them, I bet they will turn out to be blessing for you that you can never forget in your life, which will fill your life with everlasting joy and tremendous series of victories that you have ever dreamt of, it’s just the matter of changing your notion about failures.

And if you don’t build relationship with your failures, you don’t understand, appreciate and welcome them with a fearless heart and don’t respect them; they will keep on haunting you and will continue to perish your strength, energy and time, until you get taught what they wanted to teach you. So be an obedient student and let your teacher (failure) teach you the most worthy lessons, which you would surely miss, in case you get succeed in the first attempt. The more you fail, the more you encounter your teacher (failure) and the more you learn, it’s just because this fact we can find so many big names that made a history.

So, don’t let your failures haunt you, take them lightly and always appreciate your failures, because 

“Failing is a learning process and learning is a success process, this all process is much bigger and richer than the actual success”.

Father's Day (little things to ponder over)

In life I had the notion that why to make one day special, just one day? But after sitting back for a while and thinking deeply I realized that this only one day can help to make our relationships strong or even stronger, it realized the person on the other hand that how much valuable he/she is. Its true that everyday should be expressive of their valuable presence in your life but as today world is growing too quickly and technology has just hacked our time, in this era in which our relations are deprived of true caring and time sharing, if we strive little to celebrate these some special days then it can surely gives us back our relationship values, which are mostly in negligence and some really memorable moments which we really long to have but couldn’t for some reasons.

So, let the springy moments grow in your life with the loved ones, who really deserves your time and care.

We get many loved ones but how much we are concern about them, how much we strive to hold them and always keep them in our lives. Parents are also a special part of our lives and in fact they are like trees, providing us shelter and shade in so many calamities of life that we face daily. So, we really should be thankful, loving and caring towards them. Some of us never ever express our love to them. Some are too shy and some don’t know how to. Its critical but not impossible, if you are not as frank with your parents and don’t feel confident enough to say them straightly, then there are others way as well like you can arrange a good party for them, a gift and even a flower can be enough to express your feeling to them. Believe me when you do it for them the shine of bliss on their face can tell you that how much happy they are to get this beautiful feeling of love and care from you.

“Let’s dedicate even a little time for the person, who dedicated his whole life for you!”

we made this cake for our Abbu (Daddy) on Father's Day.